Life is busy as a stay-at-home mom, I've decided....:) I'm sure the hubbies wonder what goes on all day (especially when the house is nice and dirty when they get home), but trying to clean, feed, dress, play, nap, and teach your kids takes a lot of work! It was brought to my attention (by a cute little 2 1/2 year old) that I spend too much time doing the "work" when my boys are awake and in need of some mom-time. Last night, I was getting the boys ready for bed (Ryan was still at school, blah) and as usual, I was in a rush to dress them, brush their teeth, read them stories...you all probably know how it goes. While I was getting Josh dressed, though, instead of wrestling his pajamas onto his skinny arms and legs, I started tickling his belly and singing to him. (Usually, I have half of my brain devoted to Josh and the other half devoted to Carter, but I made myself pay all of my attention to Josh....Carter was safe, heh.) He crawled into my lap and snuggled up to me and put my arms under his legs so I would hold him "like a baby". He and I cuddled for a few songs with him sweetly smiling (I'm not making this up!), and then Josh calmly went to bed, and I could tell he felt satisfied and knew that his mom loved him. :) Makes me wonder how many special bonding moments I've missed! My new goal is to use my time a bit more efficiently (i.e. cut out the t.v. marathon after the boys go to bed, perhaps get up earlier....perhaps) so that I'll be more available to my boys' little needs and wants, instead of being tied to the laundry, and so I'll have more bonding moments with my kids. Nothing like a good cuddle to remind me to get my priorities straight!

7 comments:
ahh. i love being a mom. i agree, half of my day is gone before i know it just doing "stuff." way to pay attention to those small moments. way to go.
I love that Josh is cleaning it up! Ha! Ha!
I have been getting up early to make more time in my day and to get everything done that I want to. While it DOES work, man it makes me tired. lol. Loved this post. So true. All of it. And I can't believe how much Carter seems to be looking more and more like Josh. So fun.
And can you let me in on the secret as to why your son decided to clean up after his sibling? I could go for a child who would do that spontaneously. lol.
I think this has been my goal daily. Some days I get it right and some I fail miserably. I think balancing mommy time and housewife has got to be the most delicate balance life gives us!
Being a mom is tough stuff! I know how hard it is to pay attention to those "tender mercies" when there are so many other things. Thanks for reminding me. The waking up earlier is hard with nursing babies, but I'm working on it!
What a great reminder! I forget that even though Owen has a lot of fun toys, he loves playing with his mom the best. Thanks Katie, you've inspired me to devote more time to "Mommy and Me" time.
BTW, very cute boys. Seems like Carter is the mischievous one and Josh is the responsible one, how funny.
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